How to be happy in a relationship?
People are judging us all the time. They say we know nothing about life because we are still young. And that the ‘big problems’ are still ahead of us. They say it’s not possible to be so crazy about each other, that love passes after few years. They have no idea that we actually know how to be happy in a relationship .
The truth is, after 4 years being together 24 hours a day and almost 1 year of marriage, we are more happy with each other than ever before.
How we do it? How can we travel, work, sleep, eat and spend every single minute of our life together?
1. How to be happy in a relationship? Take care of each other.
It’s very important to pay attention to your partner’s needs. Does he like football? Take him for a game. Does she like shopping? Give her voucher to her favorite shop.
Choices are endless. Relationships are made of these little things. Always make your partner happy and you can be sure he/she will do the same for you.
2. How to be happy in a relationship? Listen to each other.
Talking and being close is one of the most important thing in the relationship. You need to know what your partner feels, what he/she dreams of, what are his/her biggest fears.
Bad communication worsens relationship and makes you move away from each other.
Remember, EVERYDAY counts. If you haven’t genuinely talked with your partner for a long time, do it today. Take him/her for a walk and try to listen to what he/she has to say to you. Or just tell what you feel.
3. How to be happy in a relationship? Demonstrate your feelings.
There’s nothing better on this world than hearing from someone you love how special you are.
Say something nice to your partner at least once a day. Try to praise him/ her when your family or friends are around. He/she will feel that he/she is someone special to you.
NEVER criticize your partner in public. It’s the worst thing you can do. If there’s something bad you want to tell to your lover, say it only to him/her.
There’s no need anyone else should hear it.
4. How to be happy in a relationship? Be attractive.
If you don’t wash your teeth, do not care about hygiene and never wear anything sexy, don’t expect your partner to be attracted to you.
You should always look good, no matter if you are wearing tracksuits or formalwear.
None of us is perfect and we don’t look like stars from some fancy magazines. But we all are attractive in a very special way. You know what your partner likes, right? Then emphasize this :).
5. How to be happy in a relationship? Go on regular dates.
There’s nothing better you can do to your relationship than going to the regular dates. After all these years you will still feel butterflies in your stomach.
Remember: your partner will always be more attractive to you in the light of the candles!